Should we hurry our infants?

Much of my interest in games and learning came from my youth playing games as seeing that there were potentially a really effective tool to deliver content. Though at the time I was playing those games, I wasn’t thinking about teaching and learning. I only saw how playing games about an age or time helped me understand that age or time a little bit better and at times it helped out in class as well. So now, with a new driver in my life, I’m looking at games again, but not as anything more complex than the act of doing the game – nee playing.

Coming back from the break that I took when my daughter was born, Ideas had a set of podcasts waiting on babies. This included “The Hurried Infant“. Even before listening to the two episodes, I was thinking about just how I might do best by her in terms of giving her all the tools that I could to succeed at being a complete person. Two elements of being rounded for me included the ability to take intelligent risks and solve problems. These are two principle elements of games, but they are also very important to play. Certainly through history, there have been many brilliant people who have done great things (with or without being recognized) and each of their parents must have done some thing to help them along. Not knowing what that might be, I can only assume that a common thread would be how they played or were allowed to play.

Between what Sir Ken Robinson has done on creativity and numerous resources commenting on the value of play, I think I might be on to something. For all the technology that people might think that I will use with my daughter, I think the most important thing will turn out to be play – with and without technology. I am certainly not buying into the Mozart theory and the idea that enrichment is best idea.

If I can tell stories in addition to reading, pretend and dance as well as watch a screen and build and stack as well as read, I think I’ll be giving my daughter a pretty good start. I certainly hope I don’t raise her to be one of those kids who is afraid to raise their hand because the might not know the right answer.

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2 responses to “Should we hurry our infants?”

  1. Sam Avatar

    Great post! I believe in the unhurried child and strive to give my kids as much free play as possible in their lives. Today’s kids are over scheduled and often very stressed. Your daughter is lucky!

    1. Raj Avatar

      Over the weekend I had a chance to test this unhurried element. I took my daughter outside while a storm was building to feel the breeze (maybe 15kph) after reading a story about a storm. I also allowed her some time to get her hands dirty in the dirt of one of Mom’s flower pots.

      We (Mom and I) decided that we are going to drive ourselves batty if we always try to ensure she’s not watching the screen, so we started to tell her what was happening as much as we could.

      At 4 months she can’t really ask questions, but she can certainly show interest and hopefully we are on the right track to allow experiences that are more interactive than purely theoretical. Also granting that right now her attention might last a minute on something, that it is easy to say that we will continue helping her explore her world her way, I hope that has her curiosity and attention grows she is able to explore things as a natural course of action and understand that the answer doesn’t always sit at the end of a process, that quite often, you’ll find it along the way.

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